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Kuloba uCornelius Luphahla
SIZWE sikaMthwakazi lina bezinyane lesilo, njengoba bethi liphuma lendaba litshona lendaba ngakho kule iviki sizake siphathaphathe eyinye njalo indaba eluhlupho ebantwini. Angithi indoda yindoda ngenxa yabantwabayo njalo umfazi laye uba lesithunzi nxa elemuli yakhe. Kunjalo ke kodwa kayisibo bonke abaphila emhlabeni abalabantwana.
Ukuswela inzalo lokhu kudalwa yizinto ezinengi ezehlukeneyo kungakhathalekile ukuthi uyindoda kumbe ungowesifazana. Uhlupho lolu kodwa luvame ukunindelwa abesifazana ngoba kayikho indoda evumayo ukuthi kayilanzalo.
Kwabesifazana kwakuthi intombi ingaya emazibukweni isasencane isalukzi siyivale njalo ekuyivaleni kwaso kasiyibikeli lutho ngitsho lodiwo lolo esilusebenzisayo kasilutshengisi muntu. Kwakube ngumnyama ke kwabanye isalukazi esimvalileyo sife singakamvuli kuhle kube yikuqala kwendaba.
Lapha ke nxa kungasatholakalanga ingadlangadla yesanuse esinganuka size siyefukula udiwo lolo akulalutho olungalunga. Lapho ke umntanabantu angaze ayezifela engakwazi ukuya emazibukweni njalo umntwana emzwela komakhelwane.
Okunye njalo kukhona abaswela inzalo ngenxa yokuba belamasale. Amasale la zinyama ezimila ebuntwini bowesifazana ngakho kuthiwa nxa umuntu elawo ngeke wamthola umntwana ngaphandle awaqumise. Ukuqunywa kwawo ke kwenziwa yizalukazi njalo kwenziwa ngesineke ngoba kuyingozi kungambulala umuntu nxa kuqunywe kubi.
Isilumo laso ngomunye njalo umkhuhlane odala ukuthi owesifazana angatholi inzalo. Lesi ke ngesiyabe sesixhwalile ngakho siyelatshwa kusasemasinya. Ukwelatshwa kwaso kudinga impuphu yophoko kumbe eyezimba lemfe kuhlanganiswe lempande zotshani okuthiwa yinsikani kanye lezinye izihlahla ezimbili ezejwayelekileyo kuzulu. Lapha ke intombi iyaphekelwa ilambazi ezalidlela ukuliqeda. Ekudleni lapha kulemikhuba eminengi eyenziwayo engingeke ngayibalisa kodwa ungakwenza lokhu uyabe usumelaphile olesilumo.
Kukhona njalo okungenza umuntu aswele inzalo ikakhulu nxa kwenzakale esasemncane. Angithi nje kuthiwa intombi kumbe ijaha lingalunywa yingwenya lingelatshwa kaliyitholi inzalo. Lokhu kuliqiniso sibili ngoba kwakuthi nxa umuntu wakhona engasatholanga okwazi iziphunzi zokumelapha aze ayekufa engelamntwana.
Lapha ke kulendaba sibili ngoba abanye basuka bakutshaye indiva lokhu balimuke sokonakele. Ngemva kokuba ijaha kumbe intombi ilunywe yingwenya kuyathathwa ubulongwe bayo buhlanganiswe lamanzi alesosiziba olunyelwe khona, kuthathwe iqanda leqhude eliqala ukukhonya nxa kulijaha elilunyiweyo. Ngemva kwalokho kuzathathwa induku zabafana, umfanuzacile kanye lezinye njalo izihlahla engingeke ngazibalisa lapha.
Izihlahla lezi zizahlanganiswa ke omelaphayo amsebenze ikakhulu esilondeni leso alunywa khona. Ukwelatshwa lokhu kwenziwa kungakabi lesikhathi eside umuntu lo elimele ngoba kukholelwa ukuthi umkhuhlane wokuswela inzalo lo ungabe usumemetheke umzimba wonke.
Kukhona njalo eyinye indlela yokwelapha olunywe yingwenya ukuze athole inzalo eyokusebenzisa ifotsholo etshisayo. Indlela le yiyo elula kakhulu kodwa iyasebenza sibili okokuthi ngeke uzwe kuthiwa kwehlule ukulapheka nxa usebenzise yona. Ngokunjalo ngeke ngayicazulula kabanzi ngizamana ngiyitshiyele abadala.
Kunjalo ke bakwethu yikho nje kwakungavamanga ukuthi uzwe kuthiwa kulendoda kumbe umfazi ongelanzalo endulo. Babekhaliphile oNdukuzibomvu amajaha omkhonto.
