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Umkami kalandaba lezemacansini
Khulu sibonga singathuli ngoncedo lwakho. Inkosi mayikwambulele ukuhlakanipha kwezulu ngaloluhlupho lwami. Ngileminyaka engu-24 yokuzalwa njalo umkami kalandaba lezemacansini. Ngimthola gqo nje, ngingasola uyazonda. Ngenzeni Khulu ngoba mina ngiyamthanda kodwa sengifile ngephango?
Impendulo
Lami ngiyabonga mzukulu wami, into yile phela, ukusola akulungisi lutho, kuhle libonisane lomkakho njalo umchasisele ukuba uyamkhanuka kakhulu emacansini. Xoxisanani ngezemacansini enu, likholise laye aze azizwe evukelwa lidlabuzane. Ungaze wathi wena ulephango uvuke ngolaka ngoba phakathi kwenu kungaba lenzalo umtshina omkhulu kawuvuki, uhle ulale. Okunye mzukulu kuyabe kubangelwa yimikhuhlane, kuhle ukuqathanise, ukuba lokhu kuqale nini njalo ube usukhangela imikhuhlane angabe uyayigula. Kwesinye isikhathi kungaba yiyo ngoba abezempilo bathi imikhuhlane enjengeyetshukela iyehlisa idlabuzane likababa, aphenduke nje abe ngu “go” kanye alale obukabhuka, njalo engazange futhi akholisise omunye wakhe. Okukhulu yikubonisana mzukulu, ulaka alwakhi muzi. Zama futhi ukumdlalidlalisa umkakho aze azizwe laye esefuna phela.
Umakhelwane ukhombisa intombi yami
Khulu ngithemba uziphilele. Umakhelwane wami ukhombisa intombi engifuna ukuyithatha. Ngimkhuze njani ngoba layo intombi yami sengathi isithathekile ngomakhelwane wami lo. Njalonje uhlala engilandisela ngokuthi umakhelwane lo utheni kuye ngesikhathi ngingekho, kwezinye izikhathi ngibafica behlezi bonke. Umakhelwane lo kathathanga. Mina ngileminyaka engu-25 intombi yami elimanyaka engu-22.
Impendulo
Mzukulu, indaba yokuthatha yisinqumo esikhulu empilweni njalo ifana lokuginya iganu, nxa ubona ukuba umphimbo wakho umncane ungaginyi iganu elikhulu, lawe nxa ubona ukuba impilo ofuna ukuyakha awungeke wayiphila kuhle lothathekile lo, kuhle ukutshiyana labo mzukulu. Kungenzeka ukuba kusasa ubathole beme kubi, libe selicina libulalana nje ngengozi evikekayo. Nxa yena ekwazi ukuba uthembisane lawe, okweqiniso, uyabe ehlalelani labanye abantu besilisa? Kukhanya umuntu wenu lo nguye ongelaqiniso olitshayanisa amakhanda. Ukuvele ukhulume lizakulwa mzukulu. Zithulele.
Singathandana singabonani?
Ngithemba ukuthi uqinile Khulu. Ngilenkinga lapha, kulentombi engithandana layo iminyaka emihlanu sihlala sonke eBotswana manje seseGoli. Uyala ukuza kimi kodwa uthi silokhu sithandana. Kungenzeka na khonokho Khulu?
Impendulo
Kukhanya akulahlupho lapha, mzukulu, kungani wena ufuna ezekuwe azokuba ngumasihlalisane nje? Kungani lawe ungakhulumi ngokuyavela ngakibo ukuze lihlale okusemthethweni phela. Ngithemba laye ukhangele ikusasa yakhe, lokhu wena ufuna ukuhlala nje laye. Nxa esithi uyakuthanda, kungenzeka ukuba uleqiniso sibili ngakho sekukuwe ke mzukulu, ukuba uyevela, wenze konke okucacileyo ukuze labazali bakhe babekwazi ukuba uhleli lengane yabo. Engabuya kuwe, kuthi kusasa kuvela ingozi, izalikhathaza. Kukhanya uthando lusekhona mzukulu, lungisa izinto zakho njengendoda phela, uhlale laye okusemthethweni.
Udadewethu uyasibandlula
Salibonani Khulu. Ngilohlupho ngodadewethu osibandlululayo ngenxa yokuthi asizalwa laye kubaba kodwa umama munye. Siyiphathe njani lindaba Khulu? Ngeluleka.
Impendulo
Mzukulu esintwini sithi abantu bahlanganiswa libele phela. Bekufanele libengamathe lolimi lodadewenu lo. Kuyadingeka mzukulu ukuba kelidinge izihlobo zenu eziseduze lizilandisele ngaloludaba, lani litsho insolo zenu zonke laye atsho akusolayo ngani. Nxa unyoko esaphila, kuyadingeka ukuba limlandisele ngohlupho lwenu, lizwe yena ukuba uthini, ngoba kuyisifiso somfazi wonke ukuba abantwabakhe bathandane. Lingayithuli lindaba mzukulu, yixoxeni lezinye izihlobo zenu zizalinika indlela njalo bazanelisa ukukhuluma laye udadewenu. Inyathelo elilithetheyo liyabukeka sibili, khulumisanani kuzalunga.
Kafuni kuyahlola igcikwane
Linjani Khulu ngijola lomuntu otshadileyo mina ngiphila leHIV njalo lubaba uyakwazi mhlophe lokho kodwa wathi kalandaba. Inkinga isekutheni sesileminyaka sithandana kafuni kuyathesta. Umkakhe kazi lutho ngesimo sami lanxa esazi ngami njalo wakwamukela. Kodwa angazi kumbe uyazi ngesimo sami lokuthi umkakhe kazivikeli nxa sisonke. Khulu ngidliwa ngunembeza wokuthi nxa kungenzeka babelegcikwane leli bazathini? Yena ungcono ngoba uyazi, umkakhe ke? Khulu uqinisile yini nxa esithi umkakhe uyamthanda? Angithi nje wenzela ukuthi kusasa kusolwe mina.
Impendulo
Mzukulu, ngithemba uyaphila sibili kulusizi ukuba ukhanya udliwa ngunembeza ongako. Okokuqala mzukulu kakukuhlanga ukufohlela emasimini abantu. Akukuphi sithunzi njalo lokuthi uzibize uthi “uyajola”, kubi, kanti ithuba lokwakha owakho umuzi uzalithola nini? Lubaba ojola laye ulomuzi wakhe, wena ke? Ubodinga owakho umuzi mzukulu wami. Ngempela lubaba akalaqiniso. Kutsho ukuba labo bakiwo lumkhuhlane, nanku engesabi lutho nje.
Akulaqiniso ukuba uthanda umkakhe, nanku engamvikeli nje emikhuhlaneni enje. Lawe lokhu kufaka impilo yakho esilaheni mzukulu. Abezempilo balesixwayiso sokuzivikela ukunqabela ukuzalana okuphindiweyo kwengcikwane, kodwa wena awulamzamo oyenzayo nxa uhlangana lalo ubaba. Njalo futhi kungenzeka ukuba lubaba uphila lomkhuhlane, wenzela ukugcona wena ukuthi nguwe owamthelelayo kusasa nxa sekukubi. Ubuhle nje mzukulu yikuthi uphume emasimini abantu udinge awakho, lapho ozathola khona ukukhululeka hatshi unembeza lo. Lumuntu kayithandi imuli yakhe.
